Improve Your Dating Experiences - Part 2

Day 2:

2. Know what your true “must haves” are for a relationship.

Make a list of the things you must have in a relationship. It’s okay if your list is 5 items long or 30. It’s your list. It may be wise to question whether your non-negotiable is truly non-negotiable or just a want or desire. For instance, some of my “must haves” for a partner were he had to be a non-smoker, had to like (love?) cats, had to be the same religion as I, to have no addictions (alcohol or drugs), and have a steady job and is financially responsible and would support me in my endeavors. Some of my desires were, it would be great if he played tennis, enjoy cultural activities, likes the beach and lived in the DC area. However, I could compromise and live without the last group or find other people to enjoy these things with.

By knowing your “must haves”, you will be able to skip over dating people who do not meet your real needs. This will save you time and heartache in the long run.

~Amy~