This week’s dating tips for men and women brings us to the conclusion of the “Top 10 Qualities to Look for in a Long-Term Motivated to Marry™ Partner”:
We’ve all ready reviewed nine qualities to look for. Now, we’ll continue with the 10th, which is:
10. Thinks and acts in a “we” manner, not a “me” manner
Does your potential partner think of how his or her actions will affect you? Are your thoughts and feelings taken into consideration? Is there a goal of compromise for the sake of the relationship? A relationship cannot survive on “me” alone!
To be in a relationship with an individual who is “divided” in his/her thinking with the “me” alone syndrome, only creates problems. Be on the lookout for someone who does not appear to be selfish or self-centered, but rather is willing to be sensitive to your feelings, desires, and needs. Additionally, it’s important that you also demonstrate this quality.
Suppose for example, that you have been dating someone for a considerable amount of time, and you’re now seriously considering if this individual could be “the one”. The two of you begin to discuss your finances. Carefully consider if the individual is discussing your future with a “me” alone approach to the finances, or is he/she including you in his/her future financial plans and goals? Hopefully your potential partner is thinking of you as a couple and making decisions accordingly. If he or she is excluding you in the decision-making, then you either need to discuss how you feel and see if the person understands your position. If for some reason this person continues to be self-oriented, then you may decide to move on.
Good luck with your search or your current relationship. If you are still looking, stay positive. He or she is out there waiting for you!
Best wishes for your dating and relationship endeavors!
~ Amy ~
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