Tuesday, October 23, 2007

5 Ways to ba a strategic Dater (Part 1)

5 Ways to be a strategic Dater (Part 1)

Today's dating advice for women and men, is designed to help you gear back up for dating after summer, helping you to be a Strategic Dater. When you go out to singles event, do you:

1) stick with your friends?

2) hang off by yourself and look like you are available?

3) never would be caught at a singles event!

If you answered #2, you are showing yourself to be a Strategic Dater.

Some people are born with the instinct to prepare and plan for opportunity to strike, while others encounter relationship issues and are just clueless of what's going on around them and wouldn't recognize an opportunity if it he accidentally stepped on your foot! Here are some dating tips for men and women on how to be a Strategic Dater:

Be clear about what kind of person you want to meet by asking yourself the following relationship questions:

What are your values?

What is most important to you that you want to share with a Motivated to Marry™ partner?

What are your goals in life?

Do you want to date to meet lots of new people, or are you looking for a serious relationship?

Are you looking for marriage and a family?

What interests would you like to share with another person?

For instance, one client has a love of nature and would love to have a partner who also shares this interest.

Once you figure out your values and interests, think about where you would meet people who share these goals and interests.

An example would be of a client who has a love of nature; he could join a hiking club or an outdoors club. If you value giving back to your community, go to volunteer activities to meet people who share that passion.

~Amy~

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